9. Money Is Tight / You’re Working Too Much

9. Money Is Tight / You're Working Too Much 7. You Have Gender Dysphoria “I take more of a top/giving role because when my partners focus on me, it quickly turns into dysphoria and emotional pain and crying. Which tends to ruin the mood.” This issue is obviously much more prevalent among queer and transgender folks than straight and cisgender folks. Even cisgender women can have dysphoric feelings about their bodies that impact how comfortable they feel in the bedroom and what roles they'd like to play. For transgender people, it can be even more complicated depend...